Marriage is never an easy ordeal to tackle and if you fail to believe us, then you should definitely ask those who are married.
Whether you like it or not, marriage is all about compromise. You’ll never find someone that’s 100% like you. After all, you’re unique. See, each individual has a different aspect to them that makes them special.
While some qualities you might adore of your partner, others you may hate. And this just brings us to our question for today.
We’re putting up a hypothetical situation in front of our viewers. We want you to know that there’s a woman who claims her man loves her so much and would do anything and everything under the moon for her love and affection.
But before you know it, she’s baffled because while he may adore her to bits and pieces, he’s afraid of commitment. And in such a scenario, she’s asking others if his feelings are true or not.
If a man loves you, then the first thing he’d want to do is make you his wife, she thought. But in this case, it’s the complete opposite. And she wants to know what could the reason be.
Hence, this question is for all the males out there today. Why are you so afraid to marry someone that you adore so much? What’s the logic? Are you even in love or are you afraid that it might be just a temporary crush?
Therefore, the forum is open to opinions from our viewers. Let us know, be it a male or a female, what your take on this scenario is. And what advice would you give this young woman who has been having some serious relationship problems?
Should she confront her man or should she not rush and let him take his time? Let us know your thoughts in the comments section and be sure to SHARE the story with others too.
Could be that, HE feels insecure about HIMSELF, as far as, being a successful husband. May not have ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU, AT ALL. I think there’s a lot of men, out there, that actually do question their manhood (not about, if they’re ALL man)..and wonder if, (for many years to come,) they’re capable, of keeping a woman truely happy and can take care of her and future children. In other words, they question, if they’re husband material and, secretly, that really bothers them. Men can be insecure about themselves, the same as women can be. Then, there’s men that really DON’T want to get married..no fault, or reflection on his woman..but, because it simply has never been a desire of his. There are also women, out there, that feel this way too. Some people just don’t want to get married. There are a lot of reasons, for both men AND women, not wanting marriage. The thing to do is, to sit down, with your partner and TALK it out, to figure things out, only because everybody’s reasons, can be very different. Maybe some people could change their mind about it, after talking it out…but, then again, there’ll be those, that won’t. It’s an individual thing. Each person and each couple are different and unique. It’s all about what YOU are willing to deal with, or compromise with….if, at all. At the end of the day, laying ALL the cards on the table and being honest and up front about things, is where any person, in this situation, must begin. No getting around it…especially if you want answers…but, be prepared, if they are NOT the answers, that you want. Know, what your next step will be. Do you stay, or do you move on. What can you live with???
Having been married twice maybe like me he is afraid that getting married might ruin what you two have as a good thing. For me it did. Not because they changed but because I changed and became a person I didn’t even like. So it may not have anything to do with you and how he feels about you and be all about him and himself. Why do we have to get married to be faithful and love each other to build a lifelong life together?
Please believe him when he says he doesn’t want to get married and move on. Is it easy, no! It is better to go than spend a lifetime with someone just waiting for him to cross the finish line or staying and resenting him. You are worthy of commitment and it is better to find someone who would see that from the beginning instead of waiting for someone else to make up their mind.
It’s only mean something,he don’t love her enough to marry her!As simple as that!
My boyfriend and I decided that we wouldn’t get married.
We both adore each other.
Marriage is a piece of paper. Sometimes one or the other think that they can control the other person.
Love is love. You don’t need a piece of paper to prove it.
As long as you both are on the same page. It is all good.