Marriage is never an easy decision and the period right after your engagement is deemed to be one of the most crucial moments in time for obvious reasons.
One woman is sharing her dilemma and heartbreaking after catching her fiance smoking pot. He had never informed her about the decision in the past and now, she is just having a hard time accepting the action that she witnessed live recently.
Taking her dilemma and problems online, the woman explained how this sort of behavior is something that she was always afraid of.
She did not like it and is now being forced to respond to him in a manner that doesn’t sit down well with her character. For her, it’s nothing less than a betrayal, and accepting it has her in a state of shock.
The woman revealed how she was beyond heartbroken by what she was able to witness. It was not something that you would want to see your partner hide from you.
And the way he gained pleasure from smoking was certainly proof that he was an addict, yet he never spoke to her about it. Feeling betrayed as ever, her heart just can’t even begin to imagine what else he may have lied to her about.
She caught her fiance red-handed, thanks to the security cameras installed at her neighbor’s home. They were the ones that broke the news and she was just so ashamed to even begin to imagine how daunting this ordeal turned out to be.
Now the question is whether or not she should break up with her man after learning about this or just let it go.
The latest update is that she did confront him because she feared for her relationship and how things could so easily go downhill. Her dad was an alcoholic too and she did not wish to go through the same endeavors of a painful childhood.
Do you think this is a serious enough reason to break up the marriage or not?
no its ok thats like medicine try it to
I think she should feel luck you to is all he is doing. Its no big deal DARLIN. Its legal in most states. And by the way he is not addicted to pot and it is impossible to overdose on pot. You really are making yourself sound ridiculous. This is nothing
You will never have money to spend on your home if you have a partner who is spending money on drugs
Me and my husband are living very well and both smoke pot medically. On the contrary of this you both just need to smoke a joint and calm down
Take a very deep breath and think. It’s just pot. It is legal in most states. It is non-addictive and it is not expensive now if he was shooting up heroin or snorting cocaine, that would be an entirely different conversation.
If this is against your beliefs and you feel strongly about it have a discussion about it if there is an agreement then postpone the wedding till you feel comfortable. If no agreement then break it off.
This is the sensible thing to do! Just step back and take your time, get some good counseling from a professional and analyze the situation. Be very careful for this may not be the only thing he is keeping from you. I wish you well.
I agree it may start out with pot then what
Me and my husband are living very well and both smoke pot medically. On the contrary of this you both just need to smoke a joint and calm down. We’ve only smoked cannabis for about three years now and haven’t had the urge to do anything; we don’t like drinking and that is one of the most addictive things out there I bet the wife is over there drinking every night but we’ve normalized drinking now. I say normalize smoking!